（转载） 和另一女人約會？

結婚了廿一年後，我發現了一種別出心裁的方法,可以讓愛的火花永保新鮮。
After get marriaged for twenty-one years, i found an unique way to refresh my love life.

不久以前 ，我和另一位女士約會，其實那還是我妻子的主意，
Not long ago, I was date with a lady, and the idea was came from my wife.

有一天她說：「我知道妳很愛她。」我很驚訝，立刻爭辯說： 「但我愛的是妳呀！」「我知道，但你也愛她呀！」
One day my wife said: I know u love her. I was shocked: The one I love is you! She said: I know, but u love her too.

我妻子要我去看的女士是我的母親。
The lady that my wife asked me to visit was my mother.

她已經寡居了十九年，然而我忙碌的工作和身為二個孩子父親的責任，令我分身乏術，以致很少有時間和她相聚。
She was alone for ninetwen years, however, I was busy with my job and my children, so I was less likely to visit her.

那晚，我打電話給她，邀約她第二天和我一起吃晚餐和看電影。
The night, i called her, invited her to have a dinner and movie with me at the second day.

「怎麼了，你還好嗎？」她問道。
' What happen? Are u alright?', she asked.

母親是那種會認為晚上那麼晚打電話，又突然邀約她，一定不會有什麼好事的人。 「我想如果有機會和妳單獨約會，一定很有意思。」我回答。
I answered: I was just thinking that if I have chance to date with u alone, it sure be very interesting.

她想了一會兒，然後說：「我非常樂意。」
After a while, she said: I do.

那個星期五下班以後，我開車去接她時，心裡有一點緊張,
The Friday after i worked, I fetched her at her home, felt like a little bit nervous.

因為從未嚐試過這樣的約會。
Because I had never to date with my mom before.

當我到達她家時，我看她對這樣的約會，似乎也有一點緊張。
When I reached her house, I found that she seems a little bit nervous too.

她在門內等著，身上穿著大衣，裡面那件禮服 還是最後一次慶祝結婚紀念日所穿的呢！
She was in her suite, which she wore during her last wedding anniversary with my dad, waiting me in her house.

她的頭髮還特意捲了一下，臉上的微笑像天使一般。
She made her hair specifically, smiling like an angel.

上了車後，她得意洋洋地說：「我告訴我的朋友，我要和我的兒子外出約會，他們都好羨慕，迫不及待要聽聽我們約會的情形。」
When she get into my car, she proundly said: all my friends were jeolous at me when they know that i'm gonna dating with my son.

我們去一家雖不豪華，但十分雅致，溫暖舒適的餐廳。
We went to a restaurent which was not expensive but with warmth and cozy environment.

我母親挽住我的臂彎，好像第一夫人一般。
My mom hold my hand as she was the wife of president.

入座以後，我必須幫她看菜單點菜，
After seat her, I help her to order her food,

因為她的眼睛現在只有大的字才看得見。
Because she only can read the big capital words.

用餐一半時，我抬起頭來，看到母親正在凝視我，
When we were eating, I found she was stare at me,

嘴角帶著懷舊的笑容說：「記得當你小時候，總是我為你看菜單的。」「那現在妳正好可以休息，輪到我來為妳服務了。」我回答。
She smile and said: I remembered that during ur childhood, I always make the order for u. I answered: then now is ur chance to take a rest and let me to serve u.

一面享用晚餐，我們一面聊天，聊得很愉快，
We keep talking during our dinner,

談了許多最近幾年來，各自生命中的一些事。
Sharing about our life and some special things heppening these few years.

我們聊得太久了，所以趕不上電影。當我送她回到家門口，
We talked for very long time until we missed the movie. When I fetched her back to her house,

她說「我要再和你一起外出，但下次讓我作東好嗎？」我答應了。
She asked: I'd like to date with u next time, but please let me pay the bill next time. I agreed.

回家後，妻子問我：「你的晚餐約會如何？」
When I back to my home, my wife asked: how's ur date with ur mom?

「非常有意思，比我想像的好多了！」 ~我回答。
' It was interesting and fun, over my expectation', I answered.

幾天以後，母親因心臟病猝發而去世。這事發生得太突然了，
Few days later, my mom was passed away due to heart failure. The thing happened in an unexpected manner,

讓我完全措手不及。
I wasn't prepared for it at all.

不久以後，我收到一封信，裡面是上次我和母親約會的那家餐館的一張收據，上面有一張字條寫著：「我已先付了賬，因為我確定自己不可能再有機會去了，但我還是付了兩人份的賬──你和你的妻子。 你絕對想不到那一晚的約會對我有多大的意義，我愛你。」
Soon after this, I received a letter, there are a receipt of the restaurent that I dated with my mom, and a message: I already paid the bill for our next date, even though I know I'd probably won't have chance to date with u anymore, I still pay the bill for wo persons: u and ur wife. U will never know how meaningful the date to me, I love U.

從那一刻起，我深深體會，一定要及時說： 「我愛你」，並且要常常撥出時間給我們所愛的人。
At the moment, I realised: we must always spare our precious time to our beloved, and told them u love them before it is too late.

世上沒有任何事比自然如來因緣和你的家庭更重要， 多花時間和他們在一起，因為這事絕不能拖延到「以後有時間再說 ...」。
There is nothing more important than ur family, spend more time with them before it is too late.

「樹欲靜而風不止，子欲養而親不待」 是人生一大憾事。
Don't make any regret in our life.


~{ 愛無分 ,愛有份}~ 不要等到爱得太迟，珍惜现在。祝您辛福！

celebration for our results! : )

the second time i drive out myself... and...

the first time i fetch my friends! hehe... ^-^

early in the morning, i fetch mummy to office, have breakfast with her, accompany her to the bank to settle something, after that i drive to college.

Tutorial class is at 4pm today, so i has ask my 38 group to go pyramid to have lunch (sushi!) and happy together... hehe... :)

our traditional? 1 sem. must go out together happy 1 or 2 time Only... save money mah... haha! and since we get our results already, celebrate it too lah... :D
it's about 10:45am when i reach there, okay i'm late, so i ask my friends to check my results for me... haha! i get... ...

A- Play & Learning [finally got an A]

B+ Language and Literacy for Young Children [surprise]

B+ Social Studies for Young Children [okay, could have done better]

C- Pengajian Moral [haha! my moral is not that bad lah]

well... my 38 group members hv good results too! Yeah~! so we can enjoy our time in pyramid already... 5 of us reach there first, cos Cathryn will come abit later. so we go n watch a lame+stupid movie -> DISASTER MOVIE. actually wanna watch THE HOUSE BUNNY de loh...

after the lame+stupid movie, we walk around while waiting for Cathryn. cos she got the Sushi King's member card. and with this member card, we got discount for today! hehehe... XD so, we totally enjoy the sushi's without worrying about the price! haha...

my 38 group friends

carmen, kai li, khai shuang

steph, cathryn, nian en

Mmm... Yummy nice...

KS... hehe~

Cheers~!~!~!

is it too little for 6 ppl or a lot?!

when we wanna pay the bill,
me n KS met Anna,
Kai Li met her friend(Theressa)!
~w0w~
its a small small world

our first big head photo (KS teach me de)

first time park backwards in, (in pyramid n college)
with the help of 5 pairs of eyes(including me)
HaHaHa~~~
funny :p

Actually we are about 10 minutes late for class! haha...
and the lecturer can see that we 38 group are tired n sleepy in class... :D haha...

that's all for today... Happy~!

nitezzz...

The Story of Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody...

Once upon a time there were four men named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody. There was an important job to be done and Everybody was asked to do it. But Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it. But Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about it, because it was Everybody's job. Everybody thought that Anybody could do it, and Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn't do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody and Nobody did the job that Anybody could have done in the first place. At last report, these four men were still arguing and the job they were supposed to do still wasn't done.

3rd sem. 3rd subject -- Fun~~

Music & Drama for Young Children
i can say that this is a hilarious class!
lots of fun... music... (okay, its children's songs... haha!) actions... and... laughters!
the lecturer is funny! creative! energetic!? and... professional!!!
laugh... laugh... laugh...
hahaha... hahaha...
laugh untill 见牙不见眼...
tears also got... wahaha!
mostly laugh is because of the lecturer actions lah... because he is a little little ''ah na''... so, u know... funny... hehe...

Oh... he is a real PRO! He has composed some music and songs which provide learning and development for teaching young children!
he also went to some other countries (australia, singapore......) to observe and learn and teach and dont know... >.<
[羡慕他吗？]

Okay... we have our 1st assignments again...! we have to find 20 children song lyrics of 10 various grouping! [do u think its easy?]
this due on next week! so fast! yea... yea... i know... i know... its a short semester, actually 14 weeks now cut short to 7 weeks. so 2 lectures in 1 class again...
NOT fun at all... rush lecture... rush assignments... racing with time!

Friend Bless Me... pls... *-*
thx...
nitezzz

3rd sem. 2nd subject -- Boring~~

Becoming An Early Childhood Professional

this subject is already boring and yet the lecturer is same too! OmG... the very 1st thing she come in the class is gives out lecture notes and starts lecturing. don't even bother to introduce herself or to know us! =.= Hmmm...

lecture... lecture... ... lecture... ... ...
half of us in the class ZzzZZZzZzzZzzzzZZzzzzz



So, in this 1st class we already have studied 2 sets of lecture notes (usually 1 set of lecture notes 1 class de) and let us know what to do for 1st assignment... =.= assignments again --> it is to do a teacher's handbook.

lecturer is teaching like a --> road runner (i guess)
haiz... (agree?)
can't blame on her... because this term is a short term for us. 6 weeks lecture n tutorial, 2 weeks study break, 1 week revision, 1 week exam!
hmmm... this term will be a busy one... can't be a lazy pig liao... :/

3rd sem. 1st subject -- interesting~~

Health, Safety & Nutrition
well, i kind of like this subject! hehe :)
today is the 1st class and yet we have the 1st assignment to prepare already!!! (so fast...)
the assignment is : we have to prepare drinks, food and deserts... which have to be well balanced diet...

so, we have plan for it already -- orange juice, spaghetti, mashed potato, mango jelly.

any suggestion u wanna tell me? please give a comment ^.^ Well... i'm looking forward to do this assignment!! hehe... :)

good nitezzz

3rd semester starts!

2 weeks holiday ends... so fast yea?!
i've been looking forward to start class! :) i'm weird right?
cause i'm bored of staying at home everyday doing nothing
wake up at 11++am
hang the washed clothes
bath
eat brunch
watch series
watch series
watch series
bath
eat dinner
watch series+msn
watch series or type blog
ZZzzz... sleep at 1++am
crazy and bored right? everyday the same routine except that few days going out with family... haiz... So, i have watched these 3 series --> 师奶股神（有点无聊的戏）甜言蜜语（好看！很感动叻...）金石良缘（也是蛮好看又感动的！哈哈）
so is it a boring holiday or a very relaxing holiday?? haha...

just now i read kai li's blog
it reminds me that the results will be out! Oh my g000D... @#*%! now i dont feel like going to college already...! :(

well... have to eat lunch and go college d...
have a great day to u
bye...

（放什么标题好叻）^.^

拿了驾车执照已有半年了吧
今天才正式的自己驾车出去
没有爸 妈 姐在旁边顾着看车的感觉，是有点轻松。不过，这可是负有重大的责任叻... 所以，我驾得更加小心也有点小紧张...
妈妈一直在担心着，时不时就sms问我在哪里。爸爸就不出声 闷在心里 摆脸色给我看。（haiz...不知道为什么会酱，明明就有得到他的允许了的） 姐姐为了要我早点回，骗我说她要用车。
^-^ 我想以后我也是会酱担心我的孩子的 呵呵... ^-^

我的第一个乘客就是胜胜啦... 哈哈
原本会是珈和仪的，可是之前都约不到时间...
原本胜说要载我的 因为老婆载老公很奇怪 哈哈！（会奇怪吗？）不要紧啦... 我第一次驾车出来叻...给我载一次也是应该的嘛... 嘻嘻...
就驾车去kp啦... 因为我要修一修我的头发！前面的刘海很长了，像杂草酱... 胜第一次陪我剪头发叻... 一个人坐在那边 看看杂志 看看我 发发呆... 呵呵...
帮我剪头发的是老板娘，她边剪边与我聊聊天
她说 坐在你后面的是 谢婉婷 你认识她吗？
我说 噢？！ 我不认识... （我很烂噢？？）
她说 喔... 她要出新专辑 所以来这里做造型...

从那时开始，我就注意她的一举一动... 哈哈！毕竟她少少也是艺人，就看看艺人做造型时会有怎样的丑态嘛 哈哈！发现了- 她拿一把梳子的尖头来弄头皮，因为痒痒。呵呵.. 很可爱

剪好了就买 ice-cream 在车上吃... 还有妈咪叫到要顺便买米回家 不然没饭吃。胜说我们俩19岁去买一包米，会很奇怪叻... 哈哈！ 没办法，我得吃饭啊！: ) 还有买镜子给帅帅的老公，因为出门前我弄破了他的镜子。哈哈... :p
然后，就赶在与妈咪约好的时间四点回到家！
嘻嘻... 挺开心的约会嘛~ ^-^

Hari Raya public holidays

1/10/08

its public holiday! Selamat Hari Raya~

no work today, so its a family day for us.

sister had watch Mamma Mia last night with friends and told us that we must watch this movie!

OK. so, right after we have lunch, mom and i went to JJ to buy tickets for 9:40pm (sis have to watch again the 2nd time between 24 hours, hahaha...) and go for shopping!! :D bought some shirts from hush puppies and padini and bought a glass deco, a present paper and 2 pens for myself in popular bookstore. hehe...

then go home rest for a while, 7pm only go JJ eat dinner - Kenny Rogers : ) and watch movie! it is the 2nd time we whole family go watch movie together in this year... hehe... 1st movie is watch kung fu panda! haha! because that time is fathers day i think...

i like this movie!

Comedy, Romance and Musical!

the songs are by the popular '70s group ABBA

2/10/08

in the afternoon, we went to KL - Jalan Duta to find sister's examination hall, so that next next week exam day won't be panic to find the place. sister look at the map to direct the road, i just sit in the car reading my magazine. And we turn round and round and round just to find the place! that makes me headache...! argh... u know lah... malaysia's road sign sometimes are ... ... useless!

after we know the place, we go to KL bukit bintang there... actually we wanted to find an old western food restaurant to have dinner, which is our parent use to dine in when they are still pak to that time... hehe... we ate there once! it is quite romantic, high class and the waiters are old but profesionals... BUT the road change a lot there and we are not familiar with that place, so mom who is driving turn the wrong turn! haiz... :( and so, we end up eating mee hun ke at my aunt's stall in PJ... and also went to visit my grandma... ^^